What is Infidelity Counselling?

When you and your partner got together, your relationship was marked by three things. First, there was an undeniable love for one another. You felt like you could connect with them on a deep emotional level. Second, there was an irresistible passion. You genuinely enjoyed being around the, and the days that you spent together were full of excitement. Thirdly and finally, if you were in a long-term relationship or a marriage, there was commitment. You told each other you would have eyes for your partner and your partner only. When there is infidelity or affairs in a relationship, it rocks the foundation of the partnership. That is why infidelity counselling is so important.

When your partner has an affair, it means a break with commitment. But for the party that was cheated on, it also brings up questions about the passion that their partner has for them. It also makes them question if there is any love in the relationship at all. Many couples break up over matters of affairs or infidelity. While affairs can be the end of the relationship, they don’t have to be. Many times, a breakdown in commitment happens because there has already been a breakdown in love and passion. By working together through counselling, you can look at the implications of the unfaithfulness, and commit to a new future together.

How can Infidelity Counselling Help?

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When couples come for affairs and infidelity counselling, there is always hurt and betrayal. Often times the offending side will be defensive, and the hurting side angry. In counselling the counsellor and counselling participants will talk about the overarching themes of their relationship and what went wrong. They will explore the hurt that both sides have and what needs to happen to move towards forgiveness. But most importantly, both sides will rediscover the love that they shared. The passion. And they will recommit to a new vision of the future together.